If you have read any of our past articles, then you know that we all really like coconut oil. It is a wonderful lubricant. You can find it at grocery stores or Walmart on the aisle with cooking oils and cake mixes. It stores easily, lasts for a very long time, and doesn’t get sticky like some other lubes do. But coconut oil can also be used other ways.
Here is an idea for the next time you want to try something new with your husband. Go to your bedroom and turn off the lights. Light several candles all around the room. Then undress and grab that coconut oil. Apply it all over your body. If you are a little uneasy with that, then at least lube up your breasts. The oil will melt once it comes in contact with your skin, and the results will be wonderful! Your skin will glisten in the candlelight. If your husband is a “rear” man, then lube up your back side for him! Look at yourself in the mirror to see how your body is shimmering. Then call in your husband. You can be standing there totally nude, or you could put on a sexy thong. Either way, notice your husband’s reaction when he sees your body shining in the candlelight.
Another idea is a full body massage using the coconut oil. My husband and I have done this and it is sensual and relaxing. You can use an old sheet on your bed (or on the floor in front of your fireplace!) if you are worried about the mess. You simply take turns giving each other a full body massage, using the oil to help your hands glide easily around each other’s bodies. We also used candles to make it more sensual and had soft music playing. Although we haven’t ever noticed the coconut oil staining our sheets, we still put down a couple towels across our bed to catch excess oil during the massage. . The last time my husband did this, he spent about an hour massaging all my muscles. I felt so relaxed that I almost fell asleep. It was then very hard for me to get up to give him his turn! So you may want to take separate days to do this.
If you are planning on making love while coated with coconut oil, then be aware that you two will slide around more! You may find it fun and exciting, or you may decide that it makes sex more difficult. The feel of both of your bodies sliding around on each other is unlike no other though, so I encourage you to at least try it once, and see what it’s like!
Originally published at http://christiannymphos.org/2008/02/25/sexual-play-using-coconut-oil/ as of March 22, 2013.
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